所以，我是对的 And So, I was right, and still right...

对在。。。
抽时间陪妈妈，虽然我偶尔也夜夜笙歌

对在。。。
常常买些她喜欢吃的杂粮（那个，健康不健康都有）给她当小食，虽然外号已经是‘猪猪

对在。。。
虽然我一把年纪但还是一屁股的把妈妈当人肉沙发来坐（哎呀，有温度的沙发你坐过没？）

对在。。。
把存款掏光死死都要踏她去旅行，因为她挨了一辈子年过60才有机会出国旅行。。。

因为，舅舅突然间离世了。纵使我们连夜赶回怡宝，都没有机会和他聊上一两句。他也不麻烦我们，只让我们陪了一晚就离开了，一点留恋都没有。

整个丧礼让人心酸也心寒。因为，没有人知道他生前看过什么医生，医药报告在哪里，生日，是几时。

我看不见飞蛾，等了两晚都没看见。朋友说，生态环境变迁，飞蛾少有了。但愿如此，而非灵魂落单，找不到回家的路。。。或者不愿意回家。。。

一生都为他人着想的舅舅，晚年竟然如此凄凉。

生日的这天，我陪舅舅走完了他最后一的段路，希望他早登极乐，脱离苦海。。。

你们，都知道爸妈喜欢吃什么穿什么看什么做什么吗？都有时间陪他们吗？

To spend time with mama, companying her to watch drama whenever i can

To buy all sorts of junk food (may it be healthy or not healthy) for her to chew

To made her as my personal 'human sofa' and sit on her whenever I like (hmnmm, ok this one solely my personal preference, but... at least she also enjoyed mah...)

To used up all my savings and bring her travel around as she has been working and suffering and only get to travel after age 60...

Because, her brother, my 'kao fu' (uncle) had passed away on 25 Nov, whom didn't even able to wait for us to say goodbye.

He was a huge and good man, care about the family his whole life, and I was shocked that, no one know which clinic he went to, if he has any medical report... even his birthday.

How sad was I. Can't imagine his pain & sorrow before he left, yet he choose not to say a word...

I walked him through his last journey today, on my birthday, and I wish him rest in peace and leave all the sadness behind...May God bless him...
And I hope all of you, know what your parents like to eat, drink, wear, walk, watch etc etc...and have time for them.

祈求舅舅早登极乐。。。安息。妈妈说可以拍，因为，我们都想有个纪念。。。
In remembrance of my beloved 'Kao Fu'. Mama said ok to snap this photo, as we all wanna remember him...

The Flame ~ Cheap Trick

一首22年前的曲子，现在听起来还是让人回味，这就是所谓的长春吧?
A song released 22 years ago and yet still feel so good... have you already found your flame?

Written by: Bob Mitchell and Nick Graham
Lyrics:
Another night slowly closes in
And I feel so lonely
Touching heat freezing on my skin
I pretend you still hold me
I'm going crazy, I'm losing sleep
I'm in too far, I'm in way too deep over you
I can't believe you've gone
You were the first, you'll be the last

Wherever you go, I'll be with you
Whatever you want, I'll give it to you
Whenever you need someone
To lay your heart and head upon
Remember after the fire, after all the rain
I will be the flame
I will be the flame

Watching shadows move across the wall
I feel so frightened
I wanna run to you, I wanna call
But I've been hit by lightning
Just can't stand up for fallin apart
Can't see through this veil across my heart, over you
You'll always be the one
You were the first, you'll be the last

Wherever you go, I'll be with you
Whatever you want, I'll give it to you
Whenever you need someone
To lay your heart and head upon
Remember after the fire, after all the rain
I will be the flame
I will be the flame

I'm going crazy, I'm losing sleep
I'm in too far, I'm in way too deep over you
You'll always be the one
You were the first, you'll be the last

Wherever you go, I'll be with you
Whatever you want, I'll give it to you
Whenever you need someone
To lay your heart and head upon
Remember after the fire, after all the rain
I will be the flame
I will be the flame

轻粥浓饭之~瓦煲鸡饭餐馆 Restoran Makanan Mr Claypot @ Cheras

我很爱吃粥，但鲜少在外头用粥（通常家里有煮的在外面我就会少点。。。）不过这晚还是尝了一顿令人满意开怀的潮洲粥和瓦煲鸡饭，再来一碗香滑又不甜的腐竹薏米糖水，窝心 :)

I love porridge yet seldom had it outside (dishes that mama used to cook I normally seldom try outside...), but tonight I had a very nice dining experience at this Mr Claypot at Cheras. The normal yet delicious dishes + claypot chicken rice + super fu zok barley tong sui = sweet+fantastic!

就是这里，人多但不太吵，坐在外面还可以享受徐徐微风。。。那个，现在的餐馆都流行把绵纸黏在墙上面eh?

This is the place, crowded but not too noisy(maybe sitting outside eh?), and can enjoyed the wind somemore... Errr...the tissue box is 'sticked' on the wall, seems to be the normal practise of the restaurant nowaday??

菜宝煎蛋（老妈说可以煎成这样，功力深厚。。。我们家的是散状的，起初还以为是妈妈特地煎成那样的，今天才‘穿帮’。。。哈哈。。。）

'Choi Bou' fried egg. Hehe, mama said can friend and cut in such a shape consider very 'geng', coz our house one, scattered shape one leh :P (I tot she purposedly did that for the past of the years... )

这颗咸蛋有点败笔，因为它不咸。。。哈哈。。。
This salty egg not so salty, can't blame also, this really gotto depends on the luck...

简单的马铃薯很好送粥。。。

Simple yet tasty, good with porridge :)

梅菜蒸猪肉，老妈的比较可口但这个也不错啦

Mama's one better but this one also good lah, hehee...

应该是梅香咸鱼吧？哈哈。。。只要加少少就能让你再添一碗粥了。。。
Errr... guess this is 'mui hiong' salted fish? :P Just add a little it will makes you ordered another bowl of porridge...

豆士鱼。以前家里常吃，现在好象被遗忘了。。。

Dao Si Fish...

传闻中的‘一品锅’，又名 ‘菜脚’味道最最棒！够酸够辣，湛！

This 'Yat Ban Wor' aka 'Choi Giok' is superb! Hehe... spicy and sour enough, thumbs up!

加了咸鱼的瓦煲鸡饭香浓可口，奇就奇在连饭焦我也觉得它很是滋味儿。。。

Claypot Chicken rice with salted fish, concentrated and even the burnt rice (well claypot used to have mah right?) tasted good!

不知怎的就是想来张‘全家福’。

Just want to have a 'happy family' photo.

Address:

No. 19 & 21, Block C,

Jalan Desa Aman 2,

Taman Desa Aman, Cheras,

56100 Kuala Lumpur

两性关系之~ 我忙

有没有听过朋友投诉，男生追女生时，什么都可以，肯花时间精神精力，患上恋爱症候群的几率几乎是100%。

追到手之后呢，大部分的男人那‘大男人’的本性都会渐渐显现出来。对于伴侣的要求都不太上心，很多事情都会说：我忙，你自己看着办吧。

以积极的角度来看：男生认为感情稳定了，是时候专注于事业，忙应酬为两人的将来‘搏杀’，女生应该深明大意，做个贤内助，独立自主，不要让男人操心，不要一天到晚囔着要男人抽时间陪，不要无理取闹。

这阶段，男生应该对女伴有绝对的信心和信任，所以才会那么的大无畏的把女伴放在一旁。嘘寒问暖不再。却不知道，当初女生可能就是爱上你得体贴和嘘寒问暖。

如果一旦感情稳定，连基本的温柔都抹煞掉的话，那么要个伴来做什么？不如自己和自己拍拖，自己和自己结婚？

这理论同样的用在女生身上。如果你认为一旦得到男人的真心相待，就可以变得横行霸道，可以呼风唤雨的话，那么这也和自挖坟墓没什么两样。

人的容忍和忍耐度是有限的。何苦要把伴侣的情绪处于紧弓状态，一碰就断呢？

恋爱，开始是一种感觉（每个人都这么认为，专家也这么说），这感觉可以维持大概两年。之后，就会是一种态度。

要以什么态度去爱你得伴侣，就得看你自己了。要高姿态的做个国王、女王，让人侍候，还是做个贴心的佣人好好去服侍你得伴侣，看对方开心自己也开心，就真的是适随尊便了。

其实个人认为，对于两性关系的态度，就像人生一样，不应该带着‘理所当然’的态度，要珍惜，把每一天都当成最后一天（子平教的），这样，每一件预料之外的事，都会是一个额外的红利。时不时有红利收，不是件乐事吗？

这博文启发于一位朋友的结婚准备录。因为男伴说他忙，很多东西都叫我朋友自己处理，搞得她有点意兴阑珊。还没结婚就意兴阑珊，以后的生活怎么过啊？

你，真的忙吗？真的，找不到时间吗？还是，你根本就没尝试去找时间？又或者，她/他，不在你的优先列单里？

今日名言 Wisdom of the Day

If you want my Future, forget about my Past ~ By Adeline Teoh

我接着下来的每一天都会很漂亮~ 版主
(I'll be pretty from today onwards ~ by blog owner)

朋友常常告诉我，人生是很短暂的，不要伤心要活的精彩，不是吗？
Life is too short to be mournful, appreciate it and be meaningful every single day, no?

公司的三天两夜~Team Building @ Eagle Ranch, Port Dickson

11月12日2010 年~心不在焉的踏上了这三天两夜之旅。。。
12 Nov 2010, heading to Eagle Ranch with mind wondering around...

餐厅一景，木质的布置总是让人舒服。。。
The restaurant...wooden decoration always make me feel comfortable...

听说这玩意属亚洲第三大，我还是比较喜欢SkyTrekking,只是这个啊，要靠人在下面拉着绳子才可以跳下来，是个团队玩意。。。
The ranger said this is the 3rd biggest challenge in Asia. Personally I prefered SkyTrekking, more challenging & fun, the difference is, this one you gotto trust your team mate, then only you can jump off from the challenge while they were holding the rope down there...

大家期待的射枪游戏，同样的，我也是‘嘛嘛’而已。。。

Of course, Paint Ball! Which I also 'so so' interested only...

小小玩意儿不过就是丢不中。。。

Small game along the resort...

那个。。。虽然大家都是‘马’，不过被‘嗅’时还是会毛毛的 :P

Hehe, tho we both also 'horse', but then hor, get sniffed sniffed by him still a bit geli :P

度假村里各式各样的房子，我们住左下角哪些，蛮特别的。。。

The lodging @ Eagle Rance, we stayed at left bottom one, pretty special...

我三天两夜的人类守护天使，看那姿势多么的有形。。。

My human guardian angels of the trip whom ward off the devils in the group... hahahaha...what a post...

整个旅程啊，我最享受玩乒乓的时刻，其他时间就只有一个字 - 热！超热，那天气讲真的玩什么都会意兴阑珊（我实在是不太能忍受热闷热。。。），庆幸的是还有几个谈的来得朋友可以吹吹水，也是件乐事。。。

The whole trip I guessed I enjoyed most when we were playing table tennis, the rest of the day I only remembered one word - HOT! Hot hot hot and hot! My goodness, I didn't really have any 'mood' to play any of the outdoor games due to such a weather...

Lucky thing is there are still friends that can chit chatting and hang around with....

就这么走了 In Remembrance of Beloved Edmund

Edmund走了。在我不断提醒自己要珍惜眼前，活在当下时，他就这么走了。

走的好突然，我们没人能反应得来。要再三求证。

没有哭。只是，当天空轻轻的飘着细雨时，心，是沉重的。

还约好了等他的孩子考完试，明年再来个2天一夜的旧同事家庭游。等不到了，只能永远怀缅从前的金马伦之旅。。。

这是不是上天给我的提示？好让我不要冲浪冲的那么远那么狠呢？真的好累。逃走从来都不属于我的选择。

安息吧。。。

Edmund had left... while I am still wasting my time doing nothing meaningful stuff in my life...

Couldn't believe yet it was already a fact.

I didn't cry yet the impact was huge. That day, the sky had cry out for me...lightly, quietly.

During oOur last gathering, we planned to have a short trip after his son's exam this year... and now, we seems can only recall the memories of our last Cameron Highland's trip.

Was this a hint that I shouldn't have 'suft, too far too fierce? Tiring ...

May God be with you & R.I.P...

El Meson @ Bangsar

十一月六号2010年 ~ 超级滑浪日志
6 Nov 2010 ~ In remembrance of my super 'Surfing Day'

总觉得用心煮出来的东西都会让人回味，这店家的，也是如此。。。
These are the dishes that cook with the heart, which allowed people remember its taste...

西兰花菜汤，很特别也很美味，和面包配着吃更好。。。
Broccoli Soup, last plate of the day. Yes, it is very much tasty & special...

扇贝和火腿被漂亮的呈现在食客面前。。。 厨师的心愿之一吧？
Scallop with ham presented nicely infront of customer... as one of the cook's wishes?

餐厅环境和食物都很不错，值得推荐。
The ambience & the food of the restaurant is worth to recommend.

Address:
No.61 Jalan Telawi, Bangsar, Kuala Lumpur,Wilayah Persekutuan, 59100
Tel: 03-2282-8290

做人总要信 Must Have Faith...

今天突然被各方英雄‘关心’了以下，搞得我自己也开始有点混淆了。

英雄们问我是不是怕再次受伤所以不敢再碰感情这东西，叫我要有信念 （汗颜 =='）

突然让我想起《岁月神偷》里，吴君如常常碎碎念的一句对白~做人，总要信。。。

没有答案。我想应该还是蛮乐观的，不过非常时期，还是随缘好。。。

I was being 'cared' by my heros friend out of the blue, making me confused a bit.

Heros asked if I was afraid of getting hurt again and thus stay away from relationship, asking me to have Faith.

Reminds me of the movie 《Echoes Of The Rainbow 》, which the lady always said, " Must have faith"

Well there is no answer at the moment. Guess I am still positive, but in such a critical moment, goes with the flow shall be the best option eh?

当咖啡被磨成粉，就是好好体会那入口的浓郁气息的时候了吧。。。
When the coffee beans were milled, it is time to enjoy the condense of its aroma...

pic source: http://www.londonmet.ac.uk/library/p49818_8.jpg

滑去 Bangsar Village 了~ Suft to Bangsar Village

近来都往一些以前从来都不愿意、也没兴趣去的地方。

嫌赛车。

只是，开始受不了自己真的可以那么的一成不变，所以想开始尝试一些新东西，新事物，新路，跑错路也不急着转弯，就继续往前驾驶，用用脑，再继续不用脑。。。呵呵。。。

11月4日，今天冲去Bangsar Village 了，朋友的慰安妇记也正式开始。。。真可怜。。。。

I've been to places that I hardly wanna go lately.

Traffic jam I said.

The point is, I've started to get sick about myself that I can really be that ... unchangeable (which is - boring lah). And so, I wanted to try something new, new stuff new thing new game new route, even I've got into a wrong way, there is no rush to make a U Turn, but just go ahead, explore the highway that I never ride on before, use a bit of brain and remain unused...

So, 4th Nov, my first surfing point ~ Bangsar Village dinner, which also seems to be the starting of my friend's 'comfort man's diary'.... pity pity...

‘卷’鸭失败。。唉。。。
I dont roll it well tho =='

Bangsar Village 的 ‘乡村烤鸭’ 一顿丰富的晚餐。豆腐和鸭都很不错，只是那青菜很‘清菜’而已。

A nice & comfortable dinner @ Village Roast Duck. Both Tofu & ducky were nice, just the vege tasted a bit too plain...

溜达一会儿之后，来到了闻名已久的超级咖啡店~ Espressamenre。

咖啡真的很棒，那浓郁的香味，决不是混的。。。

After a short walk around, finally I met super coffee house ~ Espressamenre.

The coffee is seriously concentrate and the smell of the aroma is unbeatable...its a thumbs up :)

冲浪人生开始 HEre CoMes my SurFing LiFE!

曾经有位叔父说，我的命就像冲浪一样，大起大落，受的了嘛就是精彩人生，受不了就会崩溃夭折（ok 这句我自己改的，戏剧性点才有看头嘛，哈哈。。。他说的很婉转，受不了会很痛苦之类的东西）

版主的滑浪人生再次正式开始，祈祷吧。

可能版主会闭关一阵子，或者比平常更活跃，就看看这一次我要怎么去滑这一趟浪了！他妈的加油吧！

心情如何？
昨晚是阿妹的“哭不出来”
现在是学友的“祝福”~ 不要问 不要说一切尽在不言中（就只这句管用）
然后再等待阿妹的“解脱”

闭关去了！

There was once an uncle (schoolmate’s father who so happened to be good in ‘Yi Jing’) said my life path is like surfing ~ big up big down (ya man crappy translation, but I like it!). If I can take it, then life will be so colorful & excited, otherwise? Well, the other way round lo.

And for now, my surfing life is about to begin again, lets pray!

I might be temporarily disappear for a while from here, or even more active, well, let see how I wanna surf this time.

What’s my mood like?
Yesterday was Ah Mei’s “can’t cry out”
Today is Jacky Cheung’s “Blessing”
And is awaiting for Ah Mei’s ‘Relief’…

Ok, retreating! Ciao!

pic source: http://www.destination360.com/europe/portugal/portugal-surf

随意“兰卡威”Langkawi Random @ AB Motel

印象最深刻的，就是在机场拿到的其中一份旅游指南，竟然把浮罗交怡译成“兰卡威” ==''
One of the 'unforgettable' experience in Langkawi airport was - bump into a brochure that direct translate Langkawi in mandarin, instead of 'Fou Luo Jiao Yi', it just put 'Lan Ka wei' ...sweat...

我们住在AB Motel，虽非星级旅馆，却有着星级的沙滩和景色，难得哦！阿德琳介绍的。。。呵呵。。。
We stayed at AB Motel @ Pantai Cenang, it is definitely not 5 stars motel but look at the environment! It's just next to the beach! Hehe, thanks to Adeline who intro this to us eh? :)

老妈总是起的早，晨运去了！
Mama always woke up early, hehe... exercising at the beach...

宁静安详的早晨。。。
Peace & serenity

老妈先发现的，还以为是什么 。。。凑近一看，原来是大水母！（没做比例，下次会记得的了）。之后还发现很多小小的水母被冲上海岸。回来后报章报导说到浮罗交怡有水母患！还好我们没下去玩水。。。
Mama spotted this... at first we didnt know what it was... moving nearer, its a huge jellyfish (ok didnt do comparison this round, next time will remember to put a slipper next to it)! Yiiii... there were many other small jellyfishes left on the beach in fact... On the Monday that we retured, the newspaper said Langkawi was hit by jellyfish boom!

载我们翻山越岭的战车。。。
Good to remember what car we chartered eh?

如果不是形单只影那该多好。。。咦，可能就是因为这样老妈才死死要我积极把自己卖出去eh??
Only if there is another person next to her, it will be perfect... mnm, probably she also doesnt want to see me alone alone like this so die die ask me sell myself out fast eh???

海边宁静的倒影。。。
A serene reflection...

这斯囔着要吃percik囔了好几天，最终在临飞前如愿以尝了。。。还真的蛮好吃哦。
Its ramadan month and this lady has been nagging for ayam percik for days, at last, we manage to hunt it down before we fly off! Yeah...and it really tasted good :P

傍晚这里可热闹的很，很多水上活动哦！

The evening @ Pandai Cenang was totally different oh, full of crowds and activities!

回机场的路上停下拍照时，还以为是谁那么好心几在海边画画。。。细看之下，是螃蟹们的杰作哦（应该是吧？呵呵。。。）。‘兰卡威’的蟹友们很有艺术细胞吧？

Guess who's the artists?? Hehe... its the crabs (or crab without 's'? Shall be eh? :P) Hehe, pretty artistic right?

近照，像蝴蝶。。。
A close look at it... looks like butterfly ...

抗烟大行动(3) ~ 亲爱的老板 Cigarettes Revolution (3) ~ Dear Boss

Its 3.15pm and AGAIN the cigarette devils assembly in my boss room ~ where they called it the last sanctuary of smoking area in office...

So? Easy, I just took my laptop, ear phone, handphone, water bottle and MOVED OUT to another sister company which located at the same row but different office slot ~ where I call it the new 'non smoking sanctuary'...

As a good staff, I always informed my boss where the hell am I, and so, I sms my boss...

Me: 'Hi Boss, I am working from xxx office. tq'
Boss: 'Ok. why, any issue?'
Me: ' Yes, I am not feeling so well and can't take the cigeratte smell in office'
Boss: 'I tot XXX office worst? Its an open smoke area'
Me: 'Hehe, no they ban smoking in office here'
Boss: **silent....

Bypass strategy is good to use sometimes as taughted by Sun Wu, the hell I wanna waste my time & energy to ask you do not smoke eh?

下午3点15分，烟民再次聚集在老板的房间（公司最后的吸烟区）大吸特吸，好像快世界末日，不吸就没机会再吸似的。

结果？当然是再次乌烟瘴气。所以？很简单，我收拾‘行李’，往‘子公司’（公司新的禁烟区）去！（同一栋楼，同一层，隔几个单位而已）

身为一名好的员工，我向来都很有交待，所以我传短讯给我亲爱的老板。

小人：‘老板，我在xxx做工’
老板：‘好。 为什么？有什么问题吗？’
小人：‘是的，我不太舒服所以受不了公司的烟味’
老板：‘咦，那里不是更糟吗？公开吸烟的叻’
小人：‘老板，人家正式禁烟了’
老板：**无言。。。

绕道战术有时更加省时省力，不对吗？

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