Saturday, December 31, 2011

再见 Bye Bye 2011, 欢迎 Welcome 2012!

今年啊,算是蛮戏剧性的一年。感谢背叛者赐予的教诲之外,当然,更加感恩身旁的好友默默的陪伴。这一年,见证了‘友谊得经的起时间的考验’和‘日久见人心’的金句。

有人说,2012年考验更堪,不论迎面而来的是什么,让我们一起积极面对吧!记得,日日是好日!

我敬佩的部落客们,虽然大家都不知道大家是谁,不过,我很感谢你们的文章和留言,因为你们,我宅女的人生可生色不少哦!谢谢!

2011 considering a drama year for me. Thanks to the betrayer who tought me a valuable lessons that made me a smarter person (like), but I'm even more greatful to my real dear friends who always be with me as and when needed. This year, I witness the golden sentence that 'friendship must be able to stand the test of time' & 'Time will tell'... (Bananaz/LG, pls pls help correct these 2 sentences if its not right ya... hehehe, brain damage, pakai google translate ==|)

People said 2012 will be tougher. Regardless what's lying ahead, lets face it with positiveness & happiness! Day day is good day!

Last but not least, thanks to all the 'never met each others's blogger (besides LG), thanks for your article & comment, you guys made my single 'homely' life much more interesting!

终于找到我喜欢的香草了!香蜂草,欢迎你!
Finally found a plant with great aroma to welcome 2012! Welcome Lemon Balm!

试试看水种可不可以传宗接代。。。目前为止还可以哦!
Wanna try and see if can plant in water...so far so good oh

削了大半天的‘芽菇’,到露台透透气时,看到了个很漂亮的晚霞。希望新的一年也会很漂亮。。。
Been working on the 'nga gu' crackers for the whole noon till evening. Saw this beautiful sunset...hoping 2012 will be as beautiful & colourful as this sunset as well...

新年快乐!
Hapy New Year!

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

27.12.1978

鸟友人:你知不知道 1978年的12月27日是什么日子啊?
无辜的我:Har? 什么日子?
鸟友人:是你满月的日子啊!啊哈哈哈哈。。。。
无辜的我:@#$%^&*&^%$#@!$%^&^%$# 王八蛋。。。

呵呵呵,这家伙就是喜欢喜欢来损我一下娱乐自己,还沾沾自喜。。。不过还真的每次都给这鸟女打败,惨啊!哈哈哈。。。
可是,我也觉得蛮幸福的,因为这鸟女可是十多年的损友,不可多得。所以偶尔牺牲小我一下也是值得的,毕竟也只有这种朋友才会在开心和不开心的时间想起你吧?

愿以此文,特别奉献给我可爱的鸟女友人。。。

Notty friend: Do you know 27.12.1978 is what occasion??
Innocent Me: Har? What occasion was that??
Notty friend: Its your fullmoon!!!
Innocent Me: @#$^&*&^%$#@$%^&^%$#@ damn... cilaka...#$%^%$#@

You see ah, this birdie notty friend ah, used to 'appear' in msn and kacau me so that she can get entertained and happily went off continue her work. Aiseh, tapi memang everytime she win...poor me!
Hehe, but think about it, actually it is kind of sweet and 'fortunate' to have such a friend eh? Coz this women ah, almost 20yrs old friend already! So sacrificed myself a bit bit occasionally still worth it right?
Most important, only such an old old friend will think of you whenever he/she is happy or not happy... Appreciate it!

Special dedicated to my 'birdie' girl friend...

Monday, December 12, 2011

你敢不敢开门? Do You Dare To Open The Door?

"Aunty Aunty 开门!开门!救救我!救我!"一个半赤裸的中国籍女子惊慌的拍打着我堂姐的邻居的门,惊动了整个六楼的住客。

老妇不敢开门。老妇的儿子不敢报警,怕坏人趁他不在时骚扰老妇。

中国籍女子被捉回同楼的单位内。

次日,中国籍女子再次逃跑,在另一个住着夫妇的单位窗外求救。

夫妇依然不敢搭救,但这次,他们报警了。

可是,中国籍女子也跳楼了。

因为,警察竟然把这可怜的女子硬生生的送回那男人那里,把这起案件当做"一般的家庭纠纷处理",妄顾女子惊恐的反应,妄顾这明眼人都知道是逼良为昌的烂勾当。

听说男人当晚被释放,连夜搬走。

一个被骗到南洋淘金实际卖淫的悲剧竟然活生生在眼前上演,一个本来不应该再在二十世纪发生的悲剧,也似乎开始在马来西亚活跃起来。

老妈知道女子下场之后心情久久不能平复(之前只知道女子求救,但不知道还有下文),她说,最低限度她会报警。而我,则在想,如果这女子拍的是我家的们,我又敢不敢开门呢?

我想,如果我开门的话,接下来的日子我应该不敢回家,或不敢出门吧? 这一刻,我觉得自己很可悲。而现在我可以做的,就只能希望这女子早登极乐,更希望我永远没有机会遇上这个"开不开门" 的恐怖的抉择。。。

"Aunty Aunty open the door! Help me, help me please!" a half naked Chinese lady knocked at my cousin's neighbor's door, screamed for help in horror, alerting the whole 6th floor's residents.

The old Aunty don't dare to open the door, neither do the son dare to call the police, afraid that the "bad guy" will disturb his mum while he was away.

The Chinese lady was being dragged back the unit.

Next day, she tried escape again and ended up outside another unit's window that own by a couple.

Don't dare to let her in as well. But this time, they reported police.

But also, the Chinese lady choose to jump off from 6th floor, to end her nightmare.

Because, the police choose to hand her back to the man she was trying to escape from, ignoring her fear & horror reactions, shivering & trembling when she saw the man, ignoring that this is pretty obvious another case of human trafficking.

The man was being released the same day, and shifted out the same night.

A tragic that seems doesn't belong's to this 20th century is once again active & alive back in Malaysia. It took me some time to accept this.

Mummy felt bad when she heard the 2nd part of the story (as we only know she cried for help but we didn't know the next day she committed suicide), and I was wondering - do I dare to open the door IF the Chinese lady was knocking on my door??

Seriously I don't know. And if I were to open the door, I guess the following days I would either hide inside the house, or don't dare to go back.

At this particular moment, I felt very pathetic for myself, and I wish this lady move on to her next life without bumping into all this horrible persons anymore.

And I pray I will never come across this horrible situation where I have to decide wether I shall open the door or not...

Friday, December 9, 2011

Jon Schmidt Feat Steven Sharp Nelson ~ Michael Meets Mozart

记娱乐于工作就是这样吧? 雪蘭鵝工作的朋友们,有个愉快的长假!
This is what people meant by 'making your interest as your career and you can enjoy it...' Just like what we see here huh?

For those who work in Selangor, have a happy loong weekend!

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Push in the Boots & Real Steel

趁着假期带两个外甥女去尝试电影马拉松顺便逛逛,呵呵。。。终于终于给我看到我期待已久的Real Steel 了。。。

Since its school holiday AND replacement public holiday... I took this opportunity to bring 2 of my nieces to experience the movie marathon and jalan jalan a bit... hehhe, thanks to them I finally manage to watch the long waited Real Steel!
我的外甥女的‘招牌’餐,从不例外,因为只有我会任她吃M记咯
'Default' meal for my niece...makan till the mother thought I don't wanna bring them makan something else.. adui...

先从两部电影开始,我们选了两套超棒的电影哦!
Started with 2 for the marathon, and ended our choices were awesome!

看她们。。。爽到。。。
Si beh happy look....

打头阵的是这只穿靴的猫。没有冷场而且融入了童话魔术豆的故事。。。一个我几乎忘了的童话故事,好怀念哦!
First show was this cat in the boots...Aiseh surprisingly it was damn nice and it blended in the magic bean's story which I almost forgot! Hehe... worth the ticket :)

这部超攒!2011 年度必看之一的电影!(个人认为啦)刺激的来又不失轻松温馨的场面,可以搭未班车在戏院看到这部戏简直是我的福气啊!
And this is awesome! Awesome awesome awesome! Thank God I still manage to catch this movie in Cinema! It was fun, excited and touching! One of the must watch movie of 2011! (personal opinion...hehehe)

这两部电影都是梦工场的制作,质素如何大家心中应该有个谱咯 ^_^
Last but not least, both of the movies are from Dreamworks, you shall know the quality of it lo ^_^

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Club Med Cherating, Kuantan

这是我第二次随公司旅行来到 Club Med。基本上设备都是大同小异,只是Rock Climbing移到真的山去了。

如果你是很喜欢看show、party、和户外活动的话,这里是还不错的,而且我们拿的是饮料任喝的配套,所以喜欢喜欢就点一杯饮品,蛮爽的。

要注意的是户外活动是有时间表的,所以得规划好,否则可能什么都玩不成了。总的来说,我不会自费来这里第二次咯.

This is the 2nd time I visited clubmed for company trip. Facilities still the same, just that the rock climbing has been moved to the real hill side.

If you like shows, parties and outdoor activities, then this is the place for you. We took the free flow of drinks package so pretty much enjoyed keep ordering different drinks from the bar :P

There is a time table for the outdoor activities so you've gotto take note on the time specify, otherwise, you would have miss it.

To conclude, I will not pay to come here 2nd time lo. Personally I still prefer Pangkor Laut Resort...
通往主厅的入口 Entrance towards the main hall
备有早点/下午茶点心,都很不错哦
There were desserts for the morning/noon coffee break, foods are pretty nice oh


很多人都会在这里休息谈天。。。
Normally people will be lazying around these sofa ...

我们的房间,环境条件还好。不过很多同事的房间冷气都不冷的。。。
Our room, so far the condition still good, but many of my colleagues' room's aircon is not cold at all...

一群人浩浩荡荡的去走山。。。短程,没什么特别。。。
Walking towards the entrance of jungle walk... short trial, nothing much...



领队说这是鹰巢哦
The G.O said this is eagle nest oh



每个傍晚晚饭前这些美女都会依当天的主题打扮的漂漂亮亮的欢迎客人前往用餐。。。
Every night before dinner these pretty ladies will dress up nicely according to the theme of the day to welcome you at the entrance for dinner.

纯粹拍照留念而已,太多人要玩了。。。
Just snap for remembrance, too many people liao...
If you haven't been here, can give a try, otherwise... you may wanna consider explore some other places lo.
总的来说如果你还没来过的话,是可以来看看的。。。

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Hoofed, TTDI

因为一位朋友的生日,我来到了这个装潢典雅的Hoofed。感觉和一般的Pub & Restaurant 有一点点的不一样。这里的烤猪蛮出名的,黑沙拉也很不错。一系列的红、白酒和啤酒任君选着。我呢,就爱它的装潢。。。位置就在TDH (Tom Dick & Harry's)的楼上哦。

I was here bcos of a good friend's birthday dinner. The feeling was slightly different from the normal pub & restaurant, I really like the reno here.  It is famous of it roasted/suckling pig, dark salad is good too. There's a wide range of red/white wine for you to choose, and beers of course.  It is at 1st floor of TDH (Tom Dick & Harry's). Worth a try.




我可是犹疑了几秒钟才‘知道’应该进哪一间才没错。这是除了Lubeck之外第二间让我有点‘不知所措’的厕所,都怪那标志。。。
I had few seconds of doubt on which to go in (tho its just the same)...hmnm... this is the 2nd toilet (besides the one in lubeck) that mades me 'hesitate' to go in bcos of its sign...adui...

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Finding & Keeping a Lifetime Partner ~ Dov Heller, M.A.

I received this article in email in 2009, read and still keep it. I think its another article that worth sharing out, coz it just make sense (to me at least). Hope you guys enjoy reading it too! Tell me if it make sense to you after reading it ok?
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When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no
one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%,
it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to
finding Mr./Miss. Right!

If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married,
they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people
make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on
love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a
profound truth here.

Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of
a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love
will come. Let me say it again: 'You can't build a lifetime relationship
on love alone'; You need a lot more!!!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about
finding and keeping a life partner.

QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose?

Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for
20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you
plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together?
You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a
common life purpose.

Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or
(2)you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart.
To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!
Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.

QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?

This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The
basis of having good communication is trust â€' i.e. trust that I won't
get 'punished'; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.
A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you
feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings.. Be honest with
yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the
person you plan to marry.

QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch?

A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you
test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a
regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of
mine defines a good person as 'someone who is always striving to be good
and do the right ';. So ask about your significant other: What do they
do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a
materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character
refinement.

There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who
are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are dedicated to
seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will
put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know
that before walking down the aisle.

QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people?

The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the
ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person
pleasure.

Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they
wrapped up in themselves and selfâ€' absorbed?
To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people
whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi
drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they
have gratitude and appreciation?
If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them
everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that
someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as
well.

QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married?

Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention
of trying to 'improve'; them after they're married. As a colleague of
mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage
for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are
now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous.
The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with
your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating;
to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.
Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on
your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't
do your homework.

Another perspective...
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a
distance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at
least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible,
notâ€'going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.
Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going
downhill?
When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones dont appreciate you?
Which ones make you feel good, praises you, boosts you with loving and
caring words or annotations.

The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and
truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets
to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your
life.

An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open,
and after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a
commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity,
ignorance, pressure from others or a low selfâ€'esteem make you blind to
warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can
change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that
important.
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete,
compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make
someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop selfâ€'esteem, spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you
won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness
or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the
wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:
1. TRUST
2. COMMUNICATION
3. INTIMACY
4. A SENSE OF HUMOR
5. SHARING TASKS
6. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes,
etc.)
7. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS
8. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE
9.GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT
10. CONCERN AND CARE FOR YOUR LOVER IN YOUR OWN WAYS.
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as
resentment withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty; and pain will
replace.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

怡保华南茶室 Kafe Wah Nam ~ Ipoh

华南茶室就在新永馨饼家对面(直走过一个红绿灯就是),听讲它的白咖啡和咖喱面还有虾面是蛮有名的哦。

Kafe Wah Nam is opposite the New Weng Hiong (the one famous with Kaya Puff), go straight cross the traffic light will be. We were told that this shop is famous of its white coffee and curry noodle and prawn mee...let’s take a look.

就是这间!This is the one!

选了个有花的角落坐下,这红色的花瓣悄悄的告诉客人,圣诞节即将来临了。。。
We picked a corner with flowers, the red leafs seems telling people that the Christmas is around the corner..

讲真的我还没吃过‘河嘻’,问老板那是什么,他就数了一大对鱼丸的名称出来,哎呀,就来一个试试。。。结果如图所示。。。没什么特别。。。
I walked around and saw this 'Hua Hi' and curious what is it about... so I ordered one.. and Aunt laughted at me...==|| Nothing special tho...

呵呵,这鱼丸是自制的,我觉得不怎么样啦,不过那炸料就很棒咯!
Home made fish ball, to me its so so only but the fried stuff is damn nice lo!

这里的白咖啡真的很棒!我们还‘打包’回吉隆坡呢!哈哈。。。还有还有,看到有很多人叫‘蛋治’(烤面包再加生熟蛋在上面,看起来也很棒)。记得要试这里的叉烧包,也很不错哦!
The White Coffee here is really Good! We even packed one back to KL :P and I saw a lot of people ordered 'egg sandwich' (grill homemade bread with half boil egg on top of it, looks great too!). And also the Char Siew Bao here also damn nice! 

在新永馨对面的店家买的。新配种的‘红毛榴莲’(是红毛荔枝才对),一点都不好吃。和原味的一点都不像!
Bought this opposite the shops of New Weng Hiong. New type of 'Ang Mao Durian' (Sorry it should be Ang Mo Lychee). Not nice at all lo, nothing like the original one... so, won't try it next time :P

哈哈哈。。还买了个小蓝子装茶叶呢!
Bought a small little basket to store the Tea!

Thursday, October 27, 2011

希望之礼 Gift of Hope ~ Give some, Share some, Feel some, Love some

世界宣明会一年一度的‘希望之礼’活动开始了,直到明年三月。我们绝对有足够的时间想想可以送些什么给有需要的孩子们,如果有花红的话就更棒了!

给一些,分享一些,领略一些,爱一些,人生会变的更美好!

注:如果你不了解世界宣明会,你可以忽视这活动,但请不要在了解前中伤这活动甚至叫身边的人也一同忽视,因为这是不公平的。

The once a year Gift of Hope event is on! Last until March 2012. So you've plenty of time to thing what to gives while waiting for your bonus of the year ^_^

It's time to Give a gift, share the news and feelings & Feel the Loves... Life will be even more beautiful!

Note: Please do not condemn or dispute or doubt of where the money goes if you HAVE NOT try to under world vision's operation. You can choose to ignore, but not goes around and ask people not to contribute...

更多详情,请点击这里 More details about Gift of Hope
没有什么比看到孩子们的笑容来得可贵
Nothing more precious than the kids laughter...

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

30 Second Speech by Bryan Dyson - Former CEO of Coca Cola

I was doing housekeeping of my emails and found this...kept for a year, and I do think it is good to share.

Special dedicated to workaholic and those who has no time for other stuff besides work...

Friday, October 14, 2011

A Phoenix in the Sky 自由翱翔的活凤凰

我很喜欢望想天空,因为它让我觉得很舒服。很羡慕云朵,因为,它总是可以很自由的随着自己的心意呈现出不同的形态。

前天傍晚,我看到一只火凤凰,让我好想跟着她一起飞。。。

I like to look up to sky, as it always make me feel comfortable. I admire the clouds coz they always present themself in whatever form they like...

I saw a phoenix a day before while I was jogging...Wished I can fly with her...

Thursday, October 6, 2011

纪念一代巨星的陨落 In Remembrance of Steve Jobs

希望这颗巨星在为大众付出之余,也得以享受他自己的人生。。。
RIP Mr Jobs...













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