Saturday, December 31, 2011

再见 Bye Bye 2011, 欢迎 Welcome 2012!




2011 considering a drama year for me. Thanks to the betrayer who tought me a valuable lessons that made me a smarter person (like), but I'm even more greatful to my real dear friends who always be with me as and when needed. This year, I witness the golden sentence that 'friendship must be able to stand the test of time' & 'Time will tell'... (Bananaz/LG, pls pls help correct these 2 sentences if its not right ya... hehehe, brain damage, pakai google translate ==|)

People said 2012 will be tougher. Regardless what's lying ahead, lets face it with positiveness & happiness! Day day is good day!

Last but not least, thanks to all the 'never met each others's blogger (besides LG), thanks for your article & comment, you guys made my single 'homely' life much more interesting!

Finally found a plant with great aroma to welcome 2012! Welcome Lemon Balm!

Wanna try and see if can plant in far so good oh

Been working on the 'nga gu' crackers for the whole noon till evening. Saw this beautiful sunset...hoping 2012 will be as beautiful & colourful as this sunset as well...

Hapy New Year!

Tuesday, December 27, 2011


鸟友人:你知不知道 1978年的12月27日是什么日子啊?
无辜的我:Har? 什么日子?
无辜的我:@#$%^&*&^%$#@!$%^&^%$# 王八蛋。。。



Notty friend: Do you know 27.12.1978 is what occasion??
Innocent Me: Har? What occasion was that??
Notty friend: Its your fullmoon!!!
Innocent Me: @#$^&*&^%$#@$%^&^%$#@ damn... cilaka...#$%^%$#@

You see ah, this birdie notty friend ah, used to 'appear' in msn and kacau me so that she can get entertained and happily went off continue her work. Aiseh, tapi memang everytime she win...poor me!
Hehe, but think about it, actually it is kind of sweet and 'fortunate' to have such a friend eh? Coz this women ah, almost 20yrs old friend already! So sacrificed myself a bit bit occasionally still worth it right?
Most important, only such an old old friend will think of you whenever he/she is happy or not happy... Appreciate it!

Special dedicated to my 'birdie' girl friend...

Monday, December 12, 2011

你敢不敢开门? Do You Dare To Open The Door?

"Aunty Aunty 开门!开门!救救我!救我!"一个半赤裸的中国籍女子惊慌的拍打着我堂姐的邻居的门,惊动了整个六楼的住客。










我想,如果我开门的话,接下来的日子我应该不敢回家,或不敢出门吧? 这一刻,我觉得自己很可悲。而现在我可以做的,就只能希望这女子早登极乐,更希望我永远没有机会遇上这个"开不开门" 的恐怖的抉择。。。

"Aunty Aunty open the door! Help me, help me please!" a half naked Chinese lady knocked at my cousin's neighbor's door, screamed for help in horror, alerting the whole 6th floor's residents.

The old Aunty don't dare to open the door, neither do the son dare to call the police, afraid that the "bad guy" will disturb his mum while he was away.

The Chinese lady was being dragged back the unit.

Next day, she tried escape again and ended up outside another unit's window that own by a couple.

Don't dare to let her in as well. But this time, they reported police.

But also, the Chinese lady choose to jump off from 6th floor, to end her nightmare.

Because, the police choose to hand her back to the man she was trying to escape from, ignoring her fear & horror reactions, shivering & trembling when she saw the man, ignoring that this is pretty obvious another case of human trafficking.

The man was being released the same day, and shifted out the same night.

A tragic that seems doesn't belong's to this 20th century is once again active & alive back in Malaysia. It took me some time to accept this.

Mummy felt bad when she heard the 2nd part of the story (as we only know she cried for help but we didn't know the next day she committed suicide), and I was wondering - do I dare to open the door IF the Chinese lady was knocking on my door??

Seriously I don't know. And if I were to open the door, I guess the following days I would either hide inside the house, or don't dare to go back.

At this particular moment, I felt very pathetic for myself, and I wish this lady move on to her next life without bumping into all this horrible persons anymore.

And I pray I will never come across this horrible situation where I have to decide wether I shall open the door or not...

Friday, December 9, 2011

Jon Schmidt Feat Steven Sharp Nelson ~ Michael Meets Mozart

记娱乐于工作就是这样吧? 雪蘭鵝工作的朋友们,有个愉快的长假!
This is what people meant by 'making your interest as your career and you can enjoy it...' Just like what we see here huh?

For those who work in Selangor, have a happy loong weekend!

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Push in the Boots & Real Steel

趁着假期带两个外甥女去尝试电影马拉松顺便逛逛,呵呵。。。终于终于给我看到我期待已久的Real Steel 了。。。

Since its school holiday AND replacement public holiday... I took this opportunity to bring 2 of my nieces to experience the movie marathon and jalan jalan a bit... hehhe, thanks to them I finally manage to watch the long waited Real Steel!
'Default' meal for my niece...makan till the mother thought I don't wanna bring them makan something else.. adui...

Started with 2 for the marathon, and ended our choices were awesome!

Si beh happy look....

First show was this cat in the boots...Aiseh surprisingly it was damn nice and it blended in the magic bean's story which I almost forgot! Hehe... worth the ticket :)

这部超攒!2011 年度必看之一的电影!(个人认为啦)刺激的来又不失轻松温馨的场面,可以搭未班车在戏院看到这部戏简直是我的福气啊!
And this is awesome! Awesome awesome awesome! Thank God I still manage to catch this movie in Cinema! It was fun, excited and touching! One of the must watch movie of 2011! (personal opinion...hehehe)

这两部电影都是梦工场的制作,质素如何大家心中应该有个谱咯 ^_^
Last but not least, both of the movies are from Dreamworks, you shall know the quality of it lo ^_^

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Club Med Cherating, Kuantan

这是我第二次随公司旅行来到 Club Med。基本上设备都是大同小异,只是Rock Climbing移到真的山去了。



This is the 2nd time I visited clubmed for company trip. Facilities still the same, just that the rock climbing has been moved to the real hill side.

If you like shows, parties and outdoor activities, then this is the place for you. We took the free flow of drinks package so pretty much enjoyed keep ordering different drinks from the bar :P

There is a time table for the outdoor activities so you've gotto take note on the time specify, otherwise, you would have miss it.

To conclude, I will not pay to come here 2nd time lo. Personally I still prefer Pangkor Laut Resort...
通往主厅的入口 Entrance towards the main hall
There were desserts for the morning/noon coffee break, foods are pretty nice oh

Normally people will be lazying around these sofa ...

Our room, so far the condition still good, but many of my colleagues' room's aircon is not cold at all...

Walking towards the entrance of jungle walk... short trial, nothing much...

The G.O said this is eagle nest oh

Every night before dinner these pretty ladies will dress up nicely according to the theme of the day to welcome you at the entrance for dinner.

Just snap for remembrance, too many people liao...
If you haven't been here, can give a try, otherwise... you may wanna consider explore some other places lo.

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Hoofed, TTDI

因为一位朋友的生日,我来到了这个装潢典雅的Hoofed。感觉和一般的Pub & Restaurant 有一点点的不一样。这里的烤猪蛮出名的,黑沙拉也很不错。一系列的红、白酒和啤酒任君选着。我呢,就爱它的装潢。。。位置就在TDH (Tom Dick & Harry's)的楼上哦。

I was here bcos of a good friend's birthday dinner. The feeling was slightly different from the normal pub & restaurant, I really like the reno here.  It is famous of it roasted/suckling pig, dark salad is good too. There's a wide range of red/white wine for you to choose, and beers of course.  It is at 1st floor of TDH (Tom Dick & Harry's). Worth a try.

I had few seconds of doubt on which to go in (tho its just the same)...hmnm... this is the 2nd toilet (besides the one in lubeck) that mades me 'hesitate' to go in bcos of its sign...adui...

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Finding & Keeping a Lifetime Partner ~ Dov Heller, M.A.

I received this article in email in 2009, read and still keep it. I think its another article that worth sharing out, coz it just make sense (to me at least). Hope you guys enjoy reading it too! Tell me if it make sense to you after reading it ok?
When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no
one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%,
it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to
finding Mr./Miss. Right!

If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married,
they'll say: 'We're in love'; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people
make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on
love. Though this may sound 'not politically correct', there's a
profound truth here.

Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of
a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love
will come. Let me say it again: 'You can't build a lifetime relationship
on love alone'; You need a lot more!!!
Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about
finding and keeping a life partner.

QUESTION ..1: Do we share a common life purpose?

Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for
20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you
plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together?
You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a
common life purpose.

Two things can happen in a marriage: (1) You can grow together, or
(2)you can grow apart. 50% of the people out there are growing apart.
To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!
Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.

QUESTION ..2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?

This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship.
Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The
basis of having good communication is trust â€' i.e. trust that I won't
get 'punished'; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings.
A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you
feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings.. Be honest with
yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the
person you plan to marry.

QUESTION ..3: Is he/she a mensch?

A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you
test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a
regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of
mine defines a good person as 'someone who is always striving to be good
and do the right ';. So ask about your significant other: What do they
do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a
materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character

There are essentially two types of people in the world: (1) People who
are dedicated to personal growth and (2) people who are dedicated to
seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will
put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know
that before walking down the aisle.

QUESTION ..4: How does he/she treat other people?

The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the
ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person

Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they
wrapped up in themselves and selfâ€' absorbed?
To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people
whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi
drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they
have gratitude and appreciation?
If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them
everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that
someone, who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as

QUESTION ..5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married?

Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention
of trying to 'improve'; them after they're married. As a colleague of
mine puts it: 'You can probably expect someone to change after marriage
for the worse' If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are
now, then you are not ready to marry them.
In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous.
The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with
your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating;
to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues.
Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on
your finger, you don't want to find yourself trouble because you didn't
do your homework.

Another perspective...
There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a
distance.. It's amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at
least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible,
notâ€'going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.
Pay attention...Which ones lift and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going
When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones dont appreciate you?
Which ones make you feel good, praises you, boosts you with loving and
caring words or annotations.

The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and
truth around you...the easier it will become for you to decide who gets
to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your

An African proverb states, 'Before you get married, keep both eyes open,
and after you marry, close one eye'; Before you get involved and make a
commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation, immaturity,
ignorance, pressure from others or a low selfâ€'esteem make you blind to
warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can
change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete,
compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?
You can't take someone to the altar to alter them. You can't make
someone love you or make someone stay.
If you develop selfâ€'esteem, spiritual discernment, and 'a life'; you
won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness
or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the
wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

6. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes,
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as
resentment withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty; and pain will

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

怡保华南茶室 Kafe Wah Nam ~ Ipoh


Kafe Wah Nam is opposite the New Weng Hiong (the one famous with Kaya Puff), go straight cross the traffic light will be. We were told that this shop is famous of its white coffee and curry noodle and prawn mee...let’s take a look.

就是这间!This is the one!

We picked a corner with flowers, the red leafs seems telling people that the Christmas is around the corner..

I walked around and saw this 'Hua Hi' and curious what is it about... so I ordered one.. and Aunt laughted at me...==|| Nothing special tho...

Home made fish ball, to me its so so only but the fried stuff is damn nice lo!

The White Coffee here is really Good! We even packed one back to KL :P and I saw a lot of people ordered 'egg sandwich' (grill homemade bread with half boil egg on top of it, looks great too!). And also the Char Siew Bao here also damn nice! 

Bought this opposite the shops of New Weng Hiong. New type of 'Ang Mao Durian' (Sorry it should be Ang Mo Lychee). Not nice at all lo, nothing like the original one... so, won't try it next time :P

Bought a small little basket to store the Tea!

Thursday, October 27, 2011

希望之礼 Gift of Hope ~ Give some, Share some, Feel some, Love some




The once a year Gift of Hope event is on! Last until March 2012. So you've plenty of time to thing what to gives while waiting for your bonus of the year ^_^

It's time to Give a gift, share the news and feelings & Feel the Loves... Life will be even more beautiful!

Note: Please do not condemn or dispute or doubt of where the money goes if you HAVE NOT try to under world vision's operation. You can choose to ignore, but not goes around and ask people not to contribute...

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Nothing more precious than the kids laughter...

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

30 Second Speech by Bryan Dyson - Former CEO of Coca Cola

I was doing housekeeping of my emails and found this...kept for a year, and I do think it is good to share.

Special dedicated to workaholic and those who has no time for other stuff besides work...

Friday, October 14, 2011

A Phoenix in the Sky 自由翱翔的活凤凰



I like to look up to sky, as it always make me feel comfortable. I admire the clouds coz they always present themself in whatever form they like...

I saw a phoenix a day before while I was jogging...Wished I can fly with her...

Thursday, October 6, 2011

纪念一代巨星的陨落 In Remembrance of Steve Jobs

RIP Mr Jobs...


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