Saturday, November 27, 2010

所以,我是对的 And So, I was right, and still right...

对在。。。
抽时间陪妈妈,虽然我偶尔也夜夜笙歌

对在。。。
常常买些她喜欢吃的杂粮(那个,健康不健康都有)给她当小食,虽然外号已经是‘猪猪

对在。。。
虽然我一把年纪但还是一屁股的把妈妈当人肉沙发来坐(哎呀,有温度的沙发你坐过没?)

对在。。。
把存款掏光死死都要踏她去旅行,因为她挨了一辈子年过60才有机会出国旅行。。。

因为,舅舅突然间离世了。纵使我们连夜赶回怡宝,都没有机会和他聊上一两句。他也不麻烦我们,只让我们陪了一晚就离开了,一点留恋都没有。

整个丧礼让人心酸也心寒。因为,没有人知道他生前看过什么医生,医药报告在哪里,生日,是几时。

我看不见飞蛾,等了两晚都没看见。朋友说,生态环境变迁,飞蛾少有了。但愿如此,而非灵魂落单,找不到回家的路。。。或者不愿意回家。。。

一生都为他人着想的舅舅,晚年竟然如此凄凉。

生日的这天,我陪舅舅走完了他最后一的段路,希望他早登极乐,脱离苦海。。。

你们,都知道爸妈喜欢吃什么穿什么看什么做什么吗?都有时间陪他们吗?

To spend time with mama, companying her to watch drama whenever i can

To buy all sorts of junk food (may it be healthy or not healthy) for her to chew

To made her as my personal 'human sofa' and sit on her whenever I like (hmnmm, ok this one solely my personal preference, but... at least she also enjoyed mah...)

To used up all my savings and bring her travel around as she has been working and suffering and only get to travel after age 60...

Because, her brother, my 'kao fu' (uncle) had passed away on 25 Nov, whom didn't even able to wait for us to say goodbye.

He was a huge and good man, care about the family his whole life, and I was shocked that, no one know which clinic he went to, if he has any medical report... even his birthday.

How sad was I. Can't imagine his pain & sorrow before he left, yet he choose not to say a word...

I walked him through his last journey today, on my birthday, and I wish him rest in peace and leave all the sadness behind...May God bless him...
And I hope all of you, know what your parents like to eat, drink, wear, walk, watch etc etc...and have time for them.

祈求舅舅早登极乐。。。安息。妈妈说可以拍,因为,我们都想有个纪念。。。
In remembrance of my beloved 'Kao Fu'. Mama said ok to snap this photo, as we all wanna remember him...

9 comments:

LION GIRL said...

Happy Birthday, Casendra dear. So sorry to hear about your uncle. And you are right to keep close to your mummy as much as you can because you love her so much for the love she has been giving you. You are both so lucky to have each other.
Always live for the living. I have learnt it the hard way when my dear sister died in a car accident.
Take care.

Jean said...

節哀順變!他在另一個世界一定會過得很好的。

你媽媽有你這樣的女兒,她會很幸福快樂的度過餘生。:)

btw, happy bday

[SK] said...

sorry for the lost of your family, how your kau fu RIP..

yeah, very true, spend precious time with your beloved ones while they are still there, at least you will not feel regret to have missed a person..

btw, happy birthday to you.. :)

[SK] said...

oopss, sorry typo.. *hope* your kau fu RIP..

壞友 PoWKilLeR said...

生态环境变迁 ,
无常 ,, ,,

Jeff Tan said...

没看到飞蛾,可能他已经潇洒地上路了。有你的悼念,应该很安慰的。对下去吧!!

正掌心 said...

人不经忧患,则贤惠不得。

节哀顺变。

Casendra said...

各位,谢谢你们的祝福和安慰。。。

Jean, 不好的东西被我省掉了。。。呵呵。。。

LG, thanks ...

fufu said...

ops... lucky my mother went to japan for my graduation :)

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